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A Published Writer’s Key to Creativity and Success

A Published Writer’s Key to Creativity and Success by Stacey Curnow | #AspireMag

First action, then inspiration~ those are the words that drive me whenever I am looking for that elusive muse called inspiration.

I’ve learned that if I show up first, whether it’s at my computer, a meeting, or a workout, she will most likely show up too.

After all, one of my favorite quotes is this one, attributed to German writer Goethe: “Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.”

I recommend reading that first paragraph again. (I’ll wait here for you.) Note that nowhere in there does it say, “Wait for inspiration, and then your action will come easily, and you’ll achieve your dreams before you know it.”

There’s something to be said for leaping before you look.

I’m pretty sure that if I believed that waiting was the way to approach inspiration, I wouldn’t have accomplished much in my life. On the other hand, acting first and expecting inspiration to follow has helped me to start working toward many of my dreams — and then achieve them.

This was certainly true of writing a children’s story, which began as a dream over ten years ago.

I’ve always loved children’s picture stories and filled bookshelves with them even before I had a child, but I never imagined writing one.

That changed when, in preparation for my first child, I read a book on parenting, Everyday Blessings: The Inner Work of Mindful Parenting by Myla Kabat-Zinn and Jon Kabat-Zinn.

It contained the story of Sir Gawain and the Loathly Lady; I loved the story, but I was a little dismayed that it seemed to hang so much on physical beauty and romantic love.

I wanted to tell a story that focused more on friendship and freedom. I shared my dream with my husband and with my dear friend (and extraordinary artist) Daniel Nevins, and they were both enthusiastic about it.

Daniel even agreed to create the illustrations if I ever managed to get the story written. Of course, it would have to wait, because my baby was born soon after I asked for his help.

Sometimes being “haunted” by something can be a good – no,  great! – thing.

I still thought about the story often, especially during those late-night feedings when it was just my son and me.

As he nestled against my breast, I thought about how precious he was to me, and how I wanted more than anything to support his freedom to become exactly who he wanted to be and to find his own path to happiness.

Even though it was painful to consider, I knew that I would support him even if he chose a path that would take him far away from me.

The first two years of my son’s life passed quickly, but the story stayed with me. I knew I still wanted to write it, but there were so many other matters to attend to. Commitments to my family and my work as a nurse-midwife seemed to take up all my time.

The few moments I carved out for myself seemed best spent doing mood-elevating exercise, which helped fuel me up for all of the other demands on my energy.

I felt I had no time to do anything more. And I doubted that writing the story would pay off even if I were to find the time, because then I’d either have to pay Daniel to do the illustrations or get a publishing deal that would pay for them — and both options seemed well nigh impossible.

Still, the idea of the story haunted me (in a good way) and I realized there was nothing to be done but to “show up” and write the story.

So I carved out the time. I sat at my computer. And I wrote. And I waited for the muse. And I wrote a little more. And sure enough, the muse arrived. I finished the story in February of 2007.

Taking a huge risk can pay off in a big way.

I sent it out to publishers hoping they would love it as much as I did. I got a few positive responses, but nothing close to a publishing contract.

After six months, I realized that if I was going to see this story “fully fleshed” – that is, illustrated — I was going to have to pay Daniel myself to illustrate it. It was the most money I had ever spent on anything other than the down payment on my house, and it felt like a huge risk, but it was worth it to see my dream become a reality.

I sent the manuscript out, now with the illustrations, and (still many months later) got a publisher interested in the book.

So, after perhaps the world’s longest gestation, my baby, Ravenna, was born. But she would have stayed a twinkle in my eye had I not been willing to take the action before inspiration struck.

So to anyone who has ever had a dream, but felt she lacked the inspiration to see it come to reality, or doubted that anything would come from it even if she did commit to it, I can only say, do it.

The best-kept secret – there is power in action!

That’s the best-kept secret to achieving your dreams — the boldness of acting on your dream really does have genius, power, and magic in it.

What about you? How are you taking steps toward your dreams? What are your secrets of success?

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About the author 

Stacey Curnow

Stacey Curnow is a sought-after purpose and success coach who recently left behind a 20-year career in nurse-midwifery – helping women give birth to babies – to help women give birth to their BIG dreams.

Stacey is the founder of Midwife for Your Life – a website, blog and series of signature coaching programs – and serves clients all over the world. She is also the Life Purpose Expert for Aspire Magazine.

She published a best-selling children’s book, Ravenna, is a contributing author of Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Choosing Happiness (coming in February of 2015), and is currently writing Pain Body Proof: How to Transform Your Negative Thoughts, Improve All Your Relationships and Enjoy More Happiness

You can sample her work by reading The Purpose and Passion Guidebook: 6 Steps to Doing Good, Feeling Good and Achieving Your Dreams. It will inspire you to tap into your deepest desires, claim your true value and identify your soul’s work in order to live your best life.

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  • This is perfect timing for me today Stacy as I have to take some bold action!! Im calling on the angels to toally back me up with inspirtaion!!

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      midwifeforyourlife says:

      Hi Kelly! I’m so glad my post could help you take some divinely-aligned and bold action!! The angels have got your back, my friend!

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    Peggy Nolan says:

    Perfect timing for me Stacey! Action first, then inspiration. Hec, I’ve waited for inspiration and trust me, she doesn’t come around all that often. Do the do…and for sure she shows up. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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      midwifeforyourlife says:

      Hi Peggy! Thanks so much for letting me know this post came at the perfect time for you! I can’t wait to hear what unfolds when you “do the do” part of co-creating with the magic of the Universe!! xxoo

  • This is so important- action is what creates inspiration! Thanks for sharing your intimate story – it’s wonderful.

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      midwifeforyourlife says:

      Hi Cena! Thanks so much for letting me know that my story resonates with you! And I’m so glad you got the most important take-away! xxoo

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      midwifeforyourlife says:

      Oh, that’s so awesome, Llinos, that you’re writing a novel! I want to be first in line at your book signing!!! xxoo

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    sheila callaham says:

    I love how you write, Stacey, so sweet and engaging. And yes, I went back and read the first paragraph again (thanks for waiting)! I am so happy to finally hear that it’s okay to jump first and then let the rest of it catch up to you. This plan of action seems to be my MO but in the real world (especially the business world from which I came) it is NOT appreciated, but reprimanded. Actually, that’s the way “innovation” works for me and it’s just one of the many reasons I love being free to do my own thing — write, read, coach, and spend tons of QT with family. Thanks for making me feel really good about me today! 😉

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      midwifeforyourlife says:

      Hi Sheila!

      Thanks so much for your sweet comment! You really made my day (and smile) by letting me you this post could help reaffirm that your special brand of innovation is exactly what the world needs!

      It’s like Howard Thurman said, “Ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” You are fully alive, my friend, and you are a gift!! xxoo

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    Chara Armon says:

    What a great story, Stacey. I love the nuances of the Gawain and Loathly Lady story, so I think it’s wonderful that you re-told it and shared it.

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      midwifeforyourlife says:

      Hi Chara! Thanks so much for your kind comment! It’s so awesome that you’re also familiar with the story of Sir Gawain and the Loathly Lady! xxoo

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    Nadia Shana Krauss says:

    Yes! Yes! Yes! My secret to success is a three step process. First comes awareness : what is it that I woukd LOVE in my life. Then comes consciousness : decide and commit to it. Them comes embodiment : taking blissful action steps. Voila!! :-))

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