“In having a baby, you are not the one “making” anything when it actually happens. You are a vessel. You cannot control the outcome. You can try to influence it, but you can’t control it. This is part of why a fertility journey — like any creative endeavor — is a spiritual journey for the modern woman who has a hard time relinquishing control.”, shares board-certified Ayurvedic practitioner Heather Grzych, author of The Ayurvedic Guide to Fertility.