We live in a consumer-driven society, and the money factor is actually one of the biggest and most common fears that we face, and that prevents some of us from taking action in aligning with our true values and follow our Passions. We fear that we will not be able to make enough money to support ourselves and our families financially. I was there myself, and so were some of my clients, so I know how painful and overwhelming that sense of feeling trapped can be.
With this main fear we keep postponing living the life we came here to live for “later” or “someday”, or what’s worse, some people even bury the idea completely, and the truth is, that when we’re not aligned with our Life Purpose we will continue to struggle, feel frustrated and unfulfilled; and that will bring consequences emotionally, physically, and even in our relationships.
We then tend to live more on auto-pilot and focus on filling the void of feeling unfulfilled by purchasing the next new electronic toy, the next new bag, the next new shoes, a new home, booking a new trip, etc. But, ultimately, we get back into our daily reality and go back to the same feelings of lack of happiness and contentment over time. These are only temporary distractions and don’t provide those sustainable feelings of meaning, joy and balance that we’re longing for in our lives.
So what do you do? How do you get out of the rut and move into being happy, fulfilled but also be able to make money doing what you love? Well, start by taking baby steps. Here are some tips:
1. Know what you want – This is key. What are you passionate about? What makes your heart sing? What makes your soul joyful and vibrant? If you are not clear about what you’re passionate about, don’t try to figure it out from your head. Meditate and reconnect with your spirit – your higher self. All the answers are within yourself.
2. If you have a full-time job and want to pursue your passion start developing it part-time – Once you are making enough money with your passion you can quit your job!
3. Be willing to learn from others who are successful doing what your passion is – There is someone out there who is making money doing what you love – find them and learn from them.
4. Be willing to invest in your personal growth as you pursue your passion – The more you release limiting beliefs that are no longer serving you, the more your career will flourish. A Mentor is the ideal person to support you, guide you and hold you accountable so you can achieve your dreams.
5. Be willing to create a new relationship with money and create a Prosperity Mindset – Read books, go to workshops, but also, very important, consider working with a coach, to help you release beliefs that limit how much money you make and living to your fullest potential. The only limits that we have are the ones that we place on ourselves.
The price we pay for working at a job, only for the money to pay the bills and have “financial security”, tends to be very significant on our emotional and physical health, and unfortunately, it will also affect our relationships. I invite you to be more mindful about what you’re doing every day to seek happiness and fulfillment.
At the end of the day, it’s not about the money or the material things we accumulate, it’s about being happy and fulfilled, but also, it’s about being an inspiration to those around us, while we create a ripple effect, make a difference and flow with life being authentic.
Begin to see the very subtle ways in which the universe is supporting you and guiding you, but the first step is to take action, even if it’s a baby step. Be open to see the guidance and support that you will get once you fully commit to living your life aligned with your Life Purpose, which is, ultimately, the only way in which you will feel true fulfillment, happiness, freedom and financial security.
