Most people have a desire to be in a loving relationship with someone they can share their life with. Feeling love and being connected is a core need for humans. How do you navigate the dating world and find that one special person?
Can you really manifest your ideal partner using the Law of Attraction? The answer is yes! Your next question is probably how. This universal law says we will attract into our lives what we focus on. Whether it is positive or negative, whether we are aware of it or not, every thought you have affects your reality.
If you have been hurt by a past relationship, are afraid of repeating past mistakes, think there are no good men out there, or are unclear as to what you really want in a partner, you will not manifest the love you desire. The good news is you are in control and can learn to harness the power of your thoughts to create the relationship of your dreams.
Your thoughts create your reality.
It all starts with your thoughts. This is where the true power lies. The right mindset will provide you with opportunity, creativity, energy, and confidence to create the relationship you truly want. You first must know what you want to attract and then believe it is possible to have it. Changes start by becoming aware of your prominent thoughts. I like to suggest spending time making a list of all the thoughts and beliefs you have about dating, men, and relationships. Write down the good and the not so good thoughts. Don’t judge them, just become aware. This gives you a picture of which thoughts need adjusting. Remember, you get what you focus on. How often are you thinking thoughts that are not taking you in the direction you want to go?
The next step is to write down a list of empowering thoughts. Empowering thoughts are the ones that make you feel good, motivate you, and make you feel more confident. It is time to start changing your beliefs and you do that by changing your thoughts; one thought at a time.
Some ideas to get you started:
- I am in the process of attracting the right partner for me.
- The partner I seek is also seeking me.
- I am relaxed and have fun on dates.
- I am closer to finding my soulmate every day.
- I open my heart and trust that love will follow.
- With new tools and skills, I create a different relationship experience.
- There are loving, caring, faithful partners and I am one.
When you are focusing on empowering thoughts, don’t limit them to dating and relationships. Be sure to look at how you feel about yourself. How can you attract an amazing partner if you don’t feel amazing about yourself? It is time to make a list of all the things that make you a great partner. What do you have to offer? When you are aware of your strengths, you will date with more confidence and will allow your authentic self to show through. It is time to love yourself!
Here are some ideas to get you started:
- I am worthy of love.
- I am confident in what I have to offer a partner.
- I effortlessly radiate positive energy.
- I am comfortable with who I am.
- The more I love myself, the more I attract my ideal partner.
- I am loveable and worthy of receiving love.
Not that long ago, I was single after being married for 28-years. The idea of dating was scary, but I was determined to have love in my life again. I knew there was another love out there for me and I would find him. I was not sure when or how, but I knew I would be successful; and I was. I am now happily remarried because of that belief.
It is important to identify what you truly want. Become clear about the kind of relationship and the qualities in a partner you are looking for. I do not mean superficial things like height, hair color, hobbies, and the shopping list some singles have. I mean the core values and life vision you must have in common for the relationship to work.
Now that you have your vision, spend time with it daily. Go back to being a child and daydream. Use the Law of Attraction to manifest your ideal partner. Instead of creating your life be default, start creating it be design. Become clear on what you want, get rid of the negative thoughts and limiting beliefs, and spend time in dreaming your relationship into reality.
When I was single, I did this every night before going to bed. I would spend time living in that relationship I was creating. I could not only imagine it, but I could feel it, as if it was already there. I truly believed my partner was on his way to me and it was just a matter of time before we were together. This is an exercise I give all my clients.
Now it is time for you to get started. Begin to monitor your thoughts and feelings, know who you are and what you want, and spend time dreaming your reality into existence.
