For as long as I can recall, I have been sensitive to the energies around me, both seen and unseen. The nuance of the messages my guides and spirit have been offering, were lost on me for many years. Once I finally opened up to receive this guidance, I began to understand the wisdom that is accessible from my conversations with dead people.
The other side is a conversation for another day but suffice it to say that the human experience is unique and one that our loved ones in spirit want to make easier for us, if only we would listen. Here are some of the nuggets that I have learned through many mediumship readings and a lifetime of hearing voices. These are high level concepts, for your contemplation.
1.Time is a human convention and an illusion at that.
We are always rushing. Stop and smell the roses is more than just an old saying. We don’t need to let time drive our lives. We need to allow ourselves to enjoy time. Have you ever noticed how time feels different when you are doing something you enjoy? It’s because time isn’t a universal law, nor is it linear. I know this is some serious quantum pondering, but when our loved ones cross over, they get to see how things all flow in the same space, through the singular point of NOW. Temporal sequencing is an attempt by our egos (human brains) to create order and control. The Truth is that control doesn’t exist, so stop stressing, especially over time and control and just experience the journey.
2.Ignoring something doesn’t make it go away
When something is stuck in your thoughts, we have been taught not to give it energy. If you think about something, you will call it in. That is the basic law of manifestation. I have seen the polar opposite demonstrate the invalidity of this theory. If there is something nagging at you, or it keeps coming up, then it needs to be acknowledged and healed, not ignored.
3.Don’t take things so personally!
Every soul has its own journey on this planet. You can do everything within your power (see above – control is an illusion) to support, show up, nurture another being, and they still have to navigate their own path. Their actions, actually, have nothing to do with you. Their life lessons are necessary steps for their soul to experience and you cannot short cut their lessons, no matter how well intended you are. Each person is a sovereign being, so it’s not about you. Don’t take the actions of others personally. They are doing the best they can with the lessons they must learn.
4.You do know the answers you seek – even if you don’t want to hear them
Humans are curious creatures, but they have forgotten that they have access to all the inner knowing and answers they seek. Spirit serves as a reminder of the things we are sometimes not willing to see, even though these answers are in front of us on a daily basis. I am guilty of asking the same question repeatedly and convincing myself that a better answer is coming. Because the answer I have gotten the last 13 times I have asked wasn’t entirely what I was hoping it would be. The universe is conspiring in your favor, even if you can’t see it from the perspective you are at.
5.Healing relationships can happen with a loved one in spirit.
Grief is a roller coaster that has a different course every day. No one experiences grief in the same way and there is definitely not a right or wrong way to navigate it. One of the biggest challenges I have seen is when people are trying to heal from a traumatic relationship with someone who has crossed over. Healing can often happen in this situation without resistance because our loved ones in spirit no longer have any agenda other than healing what is ready to be healed. I had a tumultuous relationship with my father, when he was in the physical form. Since he has passed, I have access to connecting with him on an energetic and spiritual level, which has allowed me to see the wounds he had and how they impacted the way he interacted with me. This point of view has allowed healing that wasn’t going to happen when he was in his physical body.
By connecting with spirit, for yourself or others, you have the opportunity to usher in healing and awareness that may have seemed unattainable. Allowing yourself to be in the flow of information and energy will always serve your highest and best path, leading you to all that you seek. For me, those things are peace and badass magic.
