The number one question I hear most often is, “How can I be more appealing and mesmerizing to men?” In our day and age of technology and how-to books, you would think the answer could be found easily, but for many it hasn’t.
If I were to tell you the answer is rather simple, would you believe me? Men aren’t as complicated as we make them out to be. A man who’s confident in his masculine nature will see what he likes, pursue what he desires and in the end, enjoy the spoils of his conquest. I know this sounds very “Game of Thrones”, but even in our high-tech world, this primal nature of men still exists, but in a more refined way. A woman that’s able to confidently mesmerize men, is a woman who embraces her feminine nature. This is the symbiotic nature of the masculine and feminine – the essence of Yin and Yang.
Beautiful Ones – You mesmerize men with your Attitude, Intellect, Beauty and Sex. This is where you align your inner and outer self. Many women want to solely focus on the inside, your attitude and intellect. However, this is looking at the glass half empty, which in turn leaves many feeling stuck. I’ll be honest, men are usually first attracted by what they see, this is sheer biology. So we can’t ignore this simple biological fact of attraction.
So ladies, here are 4 sassy tips to mesmerize the right man with your feminine allure:
- Attitude. Simply put, your sex appeal is anchored in your Feminine Power. This means you love all of your womanly traits, womanly behaviors and womanly feelings. This is the realization that you’re a sensual passionate woman. You don’t see these as liabilities, but as juicy assets. Why? This is who you naturally are as a woman. Your feminine balances his masculine which is truly divine.
When you’re authentically living YOU, you are happy, joyful and live with an attitude of possibility. You look for what is good vs. what is wrong. You look at life from a place of growth vs. something that needs to be guarded. Being in your divine feminine is to receive – so if you close yourself off, have an attitude of them versus me, you are denying your own feminine grace. When a person exposes a genuine aspect of themselves, and they show their authentic self to you, how does that make you feel? This is the very thing that will mesmerize men.
- Intellect. Any man worth his weight in gold desires to be with a woman who has a sharp mind, funny wit and can flex some intellectual intrigue. This is hypnotic to men, because it demonstrates your confidence, which is an aphrodisiac. Having an acute mental prowess, without being overbearing, allows you to transport your Lover to many planes of existence. Also, don’t confuse confidence with being overbearing. An overbearing woman is living in her masculine. The phrase, “speak softly – carry a big stick”, describes the intellectual nature of your feminine power. The Geishas of Japan knew this well. Not only were they skilled in the erotic arts, they were also masters of understanding male behavior.
When you understand how a man thinks, and what makes him tick, you elevate yourself to being a woman that will mesmerize men.
- Beauty. This is about taking pride in how you look! Please understand this isn’t “superficial” nonsense. And please don’t mislead yourself by thinking the outer packaging doesn’t matter, because it does. How you express yourself on the outside is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself on the inside. This is the case if your everyday attire consists of sweatpants and a baggy t-shirt or manufactured “beauty”. Where has your mind gone? Did it go the way of Desperate Housewives? If so, then I ask you to re-evaluate your concept of beauty. Beauty is what makes you feel good allowing you to walk with your head held high versus throwing on any piece of clothing because you’re being lazy. Remember, your outer beauty is a reflection of your inner self-worth. It’s time to tap into your radiance. Rocking what you have and reclaiming your WOW factor will give you the ability to mesmerize men.
- Sex. Boldly proclaim you “LOVE and ENJOY sex”! Sex is good, sex is natural. Sex is that 3 letter word you should passionately embrace. Being in your full sexual glory also demonstrates your self-confidence. Let me ask you? If sex was something to be fearful and shameful of, why would it feel so rockin’ toe-curling good? If we are divine Beings, created by divine design, then sexual pleasure is to be celebrated not denied. This is this basic ideals of Tantra. Shame keeps you in a state of bondage and insecurity. Tapping into your sexual expression will awaken your body giving you the ability to mesmerize men.
My glowing Love Goddesses, these are the 4 juicy secrets guaranteed to make you fascinating to men. Now it’s time to take some sassy action and ROCK ON!
