There was a powerful video on Facebook I have to admit blew my mind. I was gripped by the words pouring out of this woman’s mouth. She was emphatically preaching about what women need to do to get a man. If I were to ever meet this woman, I would tell her, “You go girl”. She shared that no man wants to be “handled”. He wants to be loved, respected and to feel appreciated, but NOT handled like a piece of luggage. Would you? Then, we wonder why a man won’t commit.
- Does it ever feel as if you have to drag your man along like dead weight?
- Maybe when you start to get close, he goes running for the hills?
- Or, do you feel ignored and invisible?
These are the million dollar questions I hear from many of my clients. At one point in my life, I was asking the same questions until I realized the answer was smacking me in the face, but I was too blind to see it.
I realized 2 things had to happen if I wanted a man to commit – I had to
1) Love the sensual side of me, and
2) Understand this creature called “Man”. I did this by studying the essence of man – in what I call the “Man Magnet Blueprint”
Secret #1: The Man Magnet Blueprint
Man Magnet Blueprint:
Mental Intrigue + Sexual Attraction (So He Feels Good) =
Physical Intimacy + Emotional Connection
This formula is very simple – when you combine the power of know how a man thinks, along with your seductive charm, this makes a man feel good when he’s with you. This leads to the physical intimacy and emotional connection you crave. I know there are some who will balk at this, this is sheer resistance to the wisdom of the ages. But, if you REALLY want to understand the essence of men, keep reading.
So how do you embody the Man Magnet Blueprint? It comes down to understanding male behavior (mental intrigue) and embracing your natural feminine charms (sexual attraction).
Secret #2: Understand the Top 5 Male Behaviors & Habits
Knowledge is power! When you’re aware of these 5 male behaviors, it gives you the mental power not to fall prey to female-sabotaging behavior that can turn your relationships ice cold.
- Testosterone Rules. Due to their high levels of testosterone, men have the innate need to conquer and hunt. Men treasure and respect what they have to work to get. If it comes too easy, they give it less value because they feel anyone can get it.
- Admiration. Men want to impress and be admired. This is where their competitive streak, pride and bravado comes from.
- Power of Appreciation. The male brain places achievement and appreciation in high regard. To them, their actions say, “I love you, I care for you, I need you and I want you”. A man who doesn’t feel appreciated, doesn’t feel loved.
- Senses Know Best. Testosterone makes men more primal and tactile. They naturally have a more sensitive and powerful reaction to what they see, taste, touch, smell and hear.
- Eye Candy. Men’s primary sense is visual. This is why it’s so obvious when they admire a thing of beauty or ask their woman to wear something sassy.
Secret #3: Rock Your Divine Feminine to Compliment His Masculine
Here’s a paradigm shift – Seduction is having the ability to entice someone to do something they WANT TO DO anyway. You do this by providing a safe place for a man to come out and play with you.
Seduction isn’t a 4-letter word. Seduction is about authentically making the other person feel good in your presence without expecting anything in return. This is a far cry from manipulation which is based on the premise of enticing someone to do something they don’t want to do.
Ladies, this is what men really crave…
- A woman who is confident and knows what she wants without being overbearing.
- A woman who is proud to be in her feminine essence and appreciates him being in his masculine nature.
- Men are mesmerized by a woman who’s comfortable with her body and loves the skin she’s in, because this shows your self-confidence.
- A woman who understands the male mind and flexes her intellectual prowess.
- A woman who can let down her hear by being flirty and fun. Not only does this make him feel good, but you’ll feel yummy as well.
If you embrace my pearls of wisdom, you will attract a man ready, willing and able to commit to YOU! Now it’s time to take some yummy action to attract that juicy love!
